Parting is such Sweet Sorrow

 
We had to say goodbye to another tree. A boxwood elder this time.  Not the most charming of trees, I know, but a tree that provided habitat for birds, shelter and shade for people, and through the years became a visual anchor within its surroundings.  For years now, we have been waffling about this tree (and another one exactly like it on the other side of the deck), always with mixed feelings.  Because we love our trees.  We really do. 

Unfortunately, this tree was planted too close to the house decades ago (by someone else), and no amount of trimming could tame it.  Plus there were other issues that created problems not easy to live with.  Even so, given all that, it's still hard when you have to make the decision to cut any tree down.  That part was done months ago.  Giving us time to get used to the idea.  Facing that decision yesterday was sobering.  

Lately we've been having lots of tree issues, and not just with this one.  Some appear to have bore-beetle infestations, and sap sucker damage; one gorgeous maple suddenly died without any sign of trouble.  The arborists come and go, like good doctors making house calls. But trees are a funny lot.  It's hard to decipher the signs and symptoms, and they are hard to treat.  Eventually, we have to do what's best. 

 
Looking on the bright side, and I am looking for the bright side...I just noticed that even on this gray November day, I have much more natural light in my sewing room.  That's certainly a nice benefit.  Would you look at that.  I really can't believe that great big tree was growing out of that small planter, can you?   From this angle, it's almost as if a tree was never there at all.  But I know something is missing.  And it is missed.

 
This photo taken last month, for the record.  R.I.P. dear/terrible tree. 

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Moving on then...two brighter and happier things: 

 
The cute cake Grace made for her sister's 13th birthday.  No, I don't know why there are only ten candles. I guess that's all we had.  Sometimes details get lost in the enthusiasm of a moment!   No matter--it was still a party.  

 
This is making me happy today...more details tomorrow.  

 

Comments

[Natalie VV]

I am sorry about the tree. We had to remove one that was close to our house, and it does break your heart.
Your gingerbread stitching looks darling. And happy thirteen year old birthday... cheers for brighter, happier things!

[Vee]

Trees...sometimes we just have to do the right thing. I think you'll get pretty used to all that wonderful light.

Ohhh, your daughter did a beautiful job with that cake! And what is that that you are working on? Looks so darling for this time of year.

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We are facing a similar situation with our beloved cherry tree. It too was planted by previous owners too close to the house, and unfortunately, too close to our neighbor's home too. No matter how much trimming we do, it never seems enough for the folks next door. I will feel as if I've truly lost a dear friend, if I have to have it cut down. It's on my mind everyday, so I know how hard this feels for you.

Grace is such a wonderful baker. What a gift it is, to be able to make people happy. She does that, so often with her baking, but in numerous other ways too, I'm sure. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree!

xo

[Velma]

I am so sorry for your loss of the tree. I know how much you love them. I lost a tree three years ago. I still miss seeing it every time I look out my kitchen window.

Grace is such a good big sister. Her cake looks so pretty. Lucky birthday girl.

What are you working on? I love ginger bread men.